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You're happy when you find your life partner. It is obviously one of the greatest joys because of love. Yet we talk more about finding a partner and relationship problems than about where and how we found the one. Most of the time, you don't have to travel around the world, you don't have to spend a lot of money to meet someone. You have to go out into the world with open eyes and an open heart, go outdoors, go to events, be nice to people, and your good looks will attract the person you find your match with. Translated with DeepL.com (free version)

A girl is happy when the man in her life finally decides to propose and they can organise the wedding. There are plenty of weddings, and yet we hear more about weddings gone wrong, relationships gone wrong, divorces. Many people also experience wedding planning as a huge stress, mainly because they expect too much from the big day. The couple wants everything to be perfect, with as many people as possible, and with the most fuss. But a small wedding is less stressful, and it's better not to be over it all on the big day, but rather to live the moment, the happy "yes", the smiling faces of happy parents, family and friends, not the million-dollar bill and the endless stress. If there are fewer of you, you can react to an unexpected event more easily than if you had 120 people to notify.

The greatest joy in a marriage is the birth of a child. It would be good if everyone could experience this and if every child could be born and grow up in a loving family. Unfortunately, as we know, this is not the case for everyone.

Nowadays, we hear more about the difficulties of raising children than about how joyful this time is. But when you cheer those first steps, those first words, those first years, when you see the world opening up to your child, it fills your heart with joy. These are the moments that help you through the difficulties, and believe me, if you focus on the good things instead of the complaining, you will end up seeing parenting as a struggle, not a struggle. Obviously life is full of things to do, but if you take a positive approach to the things you face and trust that you can do it, you will have far fewer setbacks and far more successes in life.

Of course, it is not the usual "norm" that makes someone happy. They don't have children, they don't settle down, but I think a happy life is within their reach. A new apartment, buying a new house, starting a career can make you just as happy. If things go well, the media can't report on it as much as if a celebrity marriage falls apart or a business goes bankrupt.

Fortunately, we do occasionally see articles where successful people, celebrities in long relationships, are asked what their secret is. Unfortunately, there are still only a few of these articles on the Internet and in newspapers, although it would be so much better to broadcast the good, to show the good to the world. Then perhaps more people would believe that they too could have a successful and happy life.

Obviously, you have to do everything, you can't wait for the pigeon to roast, but by paying attention, driving less, complaining less, you've already done a lot towards a better life.

I recently came across an interview where 81-year-old Cecília Esztergályos was asked what the secret of her marriage was. The first thing she said was, "Let's let each other live. How right you are.

Even in your daily routine, stop sometimes, give thanks for what you have, believe that everything will come when it's time, and notice the beautiful things in the world around you. Think positive, don't complain!

Many people look at you strangely, smile when you stop to admire a bush, a flower, when you stop to watch the sunset. We look strangely at those who don't have a car, even though it's nice to sit on the bus on the way home and just look at the world, at nature changing every day. Emptying your mind on the way and getting home in peace, instead of stressing out in traffic. It's when you notice the deer in the field or the kitten hiding in the bushes. You don't notice this while driving because you're paying attention to the road and traffic.

I say don't look at the other person as strange when they comment on how wonderful something is. I really like talking to people like that because it always gives me hope that others can see the beauty and joy in life.

When a random colleague walks into the office, he looks out the window and remarks how happy he is to see the mammoth pine trees 2 streets away, and how nice it is that they can be seen from far away. 🙂

Notice the ordinary beauties of the world, because this will give you happiness too!

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Caring parenting, and outstanding care, I think is a fundamental thing for bohemian moms. They're the ones who don't let their baby cry, who think it's important to breastfeed their baby for as long as possible, and to carry him or her as long as they can.

When the child is a little older and can be taken to the playground, bohemian mums follow their child, follow their every move and participate in most of the games. Whether it's climbing, swinging or playing in the sand, the bohemian mum will certainly not go to the playground in her latest stilettos, because she knows that for play to be fun, she needs comfortable clothes and shoes.

Of course, when you're tired of playing, there's always healthy snacks and drinks to relax with, because we think it's important that children are healthy from a young age and don't get used to foods that are too sugary or too salty. You don't necessarily have to think that everything is organic. It is enough to give your child only the vegetables, fruit, baked goods, meat and cold cuts that are found in everyday life. However, it is worth making sure that the products contain as few additives as possible

Bohemian parents don't feel burdened by their children, they want to spend every minute with them, and they don't mind if the child sleeps best when they are around.

This kind of caring is part of a balanced childhood.

The bohemian parent also doesn't feel it's important to spoil their child with everything, quality time together is more important. Of course, he gives him what he needs, but he tries to teach him the true value of things.

Of course, a bohemian parent won't pass up a child if they want to go to a festival. Fortunately, more and more festivals are now taking into account the need for parents to bring their children to a multi-day festival, so there are now many places where children's activities are available. Of course, this won't be the party-filled, self-destructive festival experience you used to have, but you won't miss out on your favourite programmes and concerts with your child. Of course, it is of paramount importance that the child comes first and that they are properly relaxed, entertained and protected.

So bohemian parents like to take their children with them in every situation, to involve them in joint activities, because they know that those few years will fly by, so it's worth spending as much quality time with the family as possible.

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Unfortunately, the weather was really changeable. We've got used to the weather getting worse at the weekend, but no one thought that we'd have to pull out our little jackets and long trousers again at the beginning of August.

And there's nothing better than being able to jump around at midnight to your favourite singer's concert in the summer heat, or enjoy the falling stars at night in the back garden with your partner and some refreshing company.

Now, when you leave home for a festival, you don't know where to put your raincoat and wellies, because you're going to need them.

But even warm summer rain has its romance. If you've never stepped out in the summer rain, this year, if it's still in the 30s, make sure you try it and enjoy the rainbow that emerges from the dark clouds.

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Basically, I've always accepted the people around me as they are, I've never thought that anyone should be changed or belittled because they think, dress or live differently from me.

Unfortunately, thanks to the opportunities offered by the internet, many people nowadays think that they can tell others what to do.

This is increasingly the case not only in comments but also in videos posted on social networking sites. In some cases, such videos may provoke controversy, but the more cautious observer may feel that perhaps their own approach is not appropriate and needs to change. In some cases, especially if someone has gone off into harmful addictions, this may be the case, but otherwise we should not feel oppressed just because we see the world differently.

Of course the influencers, or opinion leaders, as someone put it in a nice Hungarian word, try to make us believe that we will only be somebody if we wear the brand they recommend or decorate our home in the style they recommend. Of course, because then he'll collect the profits from our purchases.

I believe that people are always shaped by what happens to them. When I was a child, I had the problem that some classmates simply didn't like the way I was, and they would say so, and it would lead to a discussion.

Maybe that's where I decided that I would never be like that. I think a bohemian attitude includes that. The people I've met in my life have somehow always believed that regardless of age, gender, style, sexual orientation, you have to accept everyone and be open to their world.

Interestingly, this acceptance is also noticed by others, which I think is a good thing. I think acceptance and inclusion is also a pillar of the bohemian lifestyle.

My advice to everyone is that if fate brings you together with someone at work, at school, or in a community who thinks differently from you, always try to get to know their point of view and thinking first, and only then form an opinion about them, but only one that is not offensive to the other person.

If you've noticed, I've taken all the advertising off the website, leaving only the activities of our family business.

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Many people change because of conviction, many for health reasons. Personally, I am not yet a vegetarian, but my husband has recently decided that he wants to be one. So we have to make our daily cooking routine include vegetarian food, preferably not in the way that I cook for half a day. So recently, stews, vegetable creams and casseroles have become common on our table. It's also made our diet much more varied, so I'm happy with this decision.

Personally, I love salads, I like to make them. I like a tasty and varied mix, but I always choose some kind of meat to go with it. My husband only eats salads with toasted bread or boiled eggs.

I discovered vegetable creams during a previous diet, but now breakfasts and dinners are unthinkable without them. A single portion of tinned beans or lentils can make enough cream for several days, which is also healthy, without having to feed the vegetarian member of the family a plethora of cocoa snails and scones.

The cream is easy to make. I fry a head of onion, add the beans or lentils, fry them and mix with salt, pepper, mustard or mayonnaise. For a creamy consistency, you may also want to add olive oil and mash the whole thing.

Very tasty and filling when spread on toast.

You can make a vegetable cream from almost any vegetable, whether it's aubergines, pumpkin, courgettes, cauliflower, broccoli, and so on.

You can make a variety of vegetable pasta, stir-fried vegetables, mushrooms, and add fried or boiled potatoes for a filling meal on a low budget.

I also wrote the article because unfortunately most vegetarian cookbooks do not use cheap ingredients, so many people are scared that it is not easy and cheap to convert to vegetarianism.

It obviously takes imagination to make the switch, but in many cases it's more economical to make a meal than to opt for meat.

I encourage everyone to convert to vegetarianism, even if not completely, but a high percentage, your health will not regret

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However, if you want to be close to nature in winter and have the means to do so, it's worth creating a winter garden in your hom

to enjoy moments in nature in winter.

What is a good winter garden like?

First of all, it is full of greenery and large windows that can be opened wide in the summer to access the outside garden.

And in winter, you can enjoy the sight of snowfall through it.

At Christmas, you can decorate it with lots of twinkling lights and even put up your Christmas tree.

For your comfort, you can install bean bags, hanging swings. Even a dining table to sit around. You can put a fireplace in there so you don't catch a cold while you're enjoying the moment.

I found some pictures on Pinterest to illustrate how great it can be to have a winter garden.

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I've just given you some ideas of what they could be used for, in addition to organising them. Of course, to recycle, it is always recommended to remove the labels from the bottles to get an aesthetically pleasing result.

1. Ordering
   Noodles, beans, lentils, biscuits, flour, sugar, all fit neatly in a jar. The end result is a neat and tidy cupboard where you don't have to worry about sugar and flour spilling over, or parasites attacking your food.
2. You can use them as drinking glasses. Why spend thousands of dollars just to drink lemonade in the summer from a glass that looks like a jar when the attic is full of them?
3. They are also excellent for storing food. Soups, stews, salads? Use jars instead of plastic containers, either in the fridge or to take away.
4. The larger jars are also excellent for marinating meat. Why put it in plastic when it's just as good in glass?
5. Don't have enough vases at home? Or maybe you've got a smaller/bigger bouquet than you can fit in your vase? Get a jar, the result will be just as beautiful as if you had put the flowers in a vase
6. Plant herbs in the smaller jars and place them in the window. Always have fresh spices for your meals!
   
7. Do you like making candles? Maybe you want to try the technique? Smaller jars, even baby food jars, are great for candle making, but they also make great candle holders.
8. Do you work in Home Office and have a lot of office accessories? Don't know where to put paper clips, staples, pens, pencils? Use a jar for that too!
9. If you're clever, you can even make a terrarium that will decorate your home for many years to come.
   
10. Keep your toothbrush, toothpaste, beauty products, face wash cloths or make-up brushes in a jar. Don't just keep your kitchen cupboards tidy, keep your bathroom shelves tidy too! You can even keep your bobby pins, hair clips, nail clippers and other little things in there.
11. You can also make great use of your jars for rooting plants!
12. Paint brushes, paints? You can easily wash the paint out of the bottle, and if there's any left, just roll the top back on so it won't dry out.
13. Do you love sewing and have lots of accessories? Threads, balls, needles, buttons, and lots and lots of little things. Everything can go in jars instead of plastic boxes.
14. Did you bring home a little souvenir from the beach? Snails, shells, pebbles? Have you ever thought about what a beautiful composition it could be? Put it in a glass and enjoy the result!
15. They are also great for gift giving. Have you made some biscuits or cooked a delicious jam? Tie a pretty ribbon around it and you've got a gift ready!

Pictures from Pinterest

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